"The time you spend grieving over a man should never exceed the amount of time you actually spent with him." - Rita Rudner

I plan to follow this, just to give myself a deadline to get done with this grief that gives me nightmares, makes me unhappy and kills the sunshine in me. The grief of:
having been an idiot/having lost the guy/making a wrong decision/missing someone who doesn't care. I don't know what am grieving about but it all narrows down to a man.